Thursday, November 23, 2017

Not your traditional Thanksgiving Post

It’s that time again! Time for my annual Thanksgiving post! I know everyone looks forward to this post as much as they look forward to waking up and seeing the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day parade and sitting at their TVs waiting for Santa to arrive at Herald Square in front of Macy’s department Store in New York City!

I want to talk about something that has been weighing on my mind. My previous post about racism I spoke about a young woman who went on a racist rant about how Thanksgiving was a white holiday celebrated solely on the account that “white people came here and stole land from Native American Indians and were still abusing them today.” In that light, I decided to write about some of my ancestors that I am thankful for and share some of their stories; I am thankful for the men and women who make up my rich tapestry known as my ancestry.

However, let me get my cliché thanksgiving post over with. I am also thankful for my family, my friends, and my haters. I am thankful for people who choose to bless me, to be a part of my life, I am thankful for people who are willing to join me in speaking up against social injustice and those who are terrified to do so because they think they will be unfairly judged! I am thankful to live in the land that my family helped found along with other families that left the “old world” for a “new world” of religious and eventually, political freedom.

Now, let me tell you about some of the ancestors that I am thankful for; whose contributions would not only be seen today, in history books, but in the faces of their descendants. I have several ancestors whose stories are my favorites; and I am going to share some of them with you; and maybe then you will see why I am so 1) thankful for my ancestors and 2) really upset by racism and bigotry. 

The first ancestor I am thankful for is William Anders, the first Anders recorded in the Colonies. I am pretty sure he came to the colonies as an Ulster Scot seeking a better life to worship God. It's possible, but not 100% that he could have been a Quaker. 

William Penn
My first favorite story is about Joseph Haines. Joseph’s family was coming to the new colony of Pennsylvania. King Charles II of England specified in the charter given to William Penn that the name should be Pennsylvania. This is a combination of the Latin word ' Sylvania ' meaning woodland together with Penn. Joseph was born the same day his father died on William Penn’s ship The Amity. Joseph’s family had to forge a new life in a strange land. They couldn’t just hop back on a boat and return to England, they had left England to live in a completely unknown land, just so they could worship God the way they saw fit!

Next we have the story of Benjamin Harrison, my 11th great grandfather, maybe this name doesn’t mean anything to you and that is completely fine. However, he’s also an immigrant, and his story states: Benjamin Harrision, the Immigrant. Born in England and came early to VA. He would endure the Indian Attack of 1622. That he was a man of exceptional education is shown by his appointment as a clerk of the Virginia council before 1633. He was a member of the House of Burgesse in 1642. By his wife Mary, he had two sons: Benjamin II and Peter who died in middle life without issue. Mary, widow of Benjamin Harrison, married (second) Benjamin Sidway. Her will, dated March 1, 1687-88, bequeaths to granddaughter, Hannah Harrison; to sons Benjamin Harrison, Thomas Sidway, and John Kersey.  His descendants include President William Henry Harrison and Benjamin Harrison V, signer of the Declaration of Independence.

Huguenot Cross
The next family member that I really enjoy their story is that of my French 9th great grandfather, the Marquis De La Calmes. Marquis was born about 1675. Marquis Calmes ... He passed away about 1741. The son of Guillaume William de Calmes “Seigneur de Barbeiran” and his wife Francoise de St. Cernin, Marquis Guillaume De Calmes was born in 1675 in Trebs Dioc de Carcassone Languedoc France. While the family was titled, Marquis was probably not a rank. The family was Huguenot, and Marquis fled with his parents from France to England in about 1685 to avoid the religious persecution in France, as the Edict of Nantes, promulgated in 1598 by Henry IV, was revoked by Louis XIV in 1685. Marquis De Calmes was granted English citizenship by King James II on 5 January 1687. He is listed as a member of Huguenot Church on Threadneedle St., London in 1687 and 1688, and while there in England, he married Isabella Elliche. Marquis De Calmes and his wife Isabella arrived in Virginia between 1696 and 1700. They first lived in a Huguenot settlement on the James River, and then were granted 711 acres on the North Run of Acquia Creek, in Stafford County, Virginia on 11 May 1706. He was granted another 744 acres on the South Run of Acquia creek adjoining his other acreage on 01 Sep 1709. He died prior to 1741 (although this cannot be confirmed due to the destruction of records during the Civil War), and his wife died in 1742. 

One of the best stories I know about the Broyhill (yes, the furniture makers) family is that of my 5th great-grandfather John Norman Broyhill. His son Nathan was a Cherokee Indian. John Norman apparently married this Indian woman around 1803.  Her maiden name is unknown, but Paul wrote that he is also connected with the Dawes family of North Carolina. The Wilkes County, NC marriage records show that he married Polly Davis in 1810. Either he abandoned his Indian wife or she had died.  His parents obviously knew of this marriage became both Norman's father, James Broyhill, and his son, Nathan Broyhill, provided testimony in an 1828 Wilkes County hunting accident.  Broyhill family records show that his son Thomas was born October 17, 1816 at Moravian Falls, NC and that his son, John, was born in Tennessee in 1820.   John Norman Broyhill appears on the 1820 Census of Tennessee as John N. Brawhill. The family was back in Wilkes in 1821.  The following year, his younger brother William left for Tennessee, perhaps inspired by John's stories of new land.  His other brother, James Jr., later moved to Tennessee. Family oral tradition maintains that his wife and children came home from Church one Sunday to find John's new shoes sitting on the kitchen table.  In them was a note stating, "Norman is gone."  And indeed he was because he completely disappears from Wilkes County records. 
Black and White by Leslie Dula McKesson
I am going now to tell you about my ancestor, 2nd Cousin-6x removed, James Alfred Dula. His first wife died after giving birth to 6 children. She had been given a slave, Harriet, when she married, her [Harriet] picture indicates she was probably part white, Cherokee and black. James never remarried but had 8 children by Harriet. He gave her land and money to protect her and his children. If anyone tried to take what he had given her his will states they would receive nothing. Dulatown in Lenoir, N.C. consists of the land given to Harriet and her children.

Today, I am truly thankful for my family; my ancestors for forging life in a land that was completely unforgiving and not welcoming to them. I am thankful for a God who supplied their every need; to the point that truly they could sing out “I know the plans I have for you, not to harm you, but to give you a hope and future!” Jeremiah 29:11

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